Category Archives: General Thoughts
Doing what’s right
Here’s a quiz on some issues young people might face in their lives. See what advice you would give.
1. Your daughter is having a tough time with a class in school. Her grade is borderline failing. If she doesn’t pass the next test she will fail the class. She is sure she can pass if she writes some key hints on crib sheets. The teacher doesn’t watch the class very closely while they take tests. Should you tell her to make up the crib sheets?
2.. Your daughter is working in her first job out of school. It doesn’t pay very well and she is having trouble making ends meet. The petty cash drawer is locked in a drawer but she knows where the key is. She believes she can help herself a little to some without getting caught. Should you tell her it’s ok to do it?
3. Your son is the CEO of a company. The CFO shows him a way to artificially inflate the stock price by moving money around and reporting income that isn’t really there. If he does it he and others in on the scheme can get rich. They believe they can do this without being caught. Should they?
Odds are you would answer “no” to each of these questions. (I’ll bet Mrs. Skilling wishes someone would’ve asked her.) Yet all over the fastpitch softball world, coaches are knowingly teaching their players just the opposite lesson.
This came up tonight when someone I know, like, and respect was proudly telling me how his daughter’s new team has a very “aggressive” philosophy. He said they teach their fielders to stand in the basepath when a ball is hit, forcing base runners to go around them. Although it is aginst the rules, the rationale is umpires won’t call it. Same with what they’re teaching hitters. With runners on base they tell hitters to switch to the left side, fake a bunt, and then pull the bat back to interfere with the catcher trying to make the play. Apparently wherever they play the umpires don’t call that either. (That is some poor umpiring in my opinion.) Another technique is to fake a bunt and then step across the plate in the way of a throw. The rules state that a batter is not allowed to interfere with a catcher making a play, but they rationalize that it’s ok as long as they don’t get caught.
Sports are supposed to teach lessons such as playing by the rules, showing good sportsmanship, and winning through putting forth your best effort — not through cheating. I can only hope that someday, one of these players who is learning that the rules don’t matter if you can get away with it wind up in charge of these coach’s retirement fund. Maybe then they’ll regret the lesson they taught on the softball field.
Prior has the gall to ask for a raise!
Ok, this isn’t really about fastpitch. But it’s my blog and I’ll do what I want. (Apologies to The Animals.)
I heard the other day that Cubs pitcher Mark Prior is asking for a raise, from somewhere around $3.4 million to $3.65 million. He must be smoking crack have an over-inflated opinion of himself.
In what other job can you barely show up for work, fail six times more than you succeed, have your most visible measured performance indicator (in his case ERA) be miserable (7+) and expect your employer to pay you more money? Most of us would have been fired long ago from our jobs if we performed that way. And most of us are not paid several million dollars for it. I know I’m not.
If you have a son, don’t waste your time making him study math, or history, or any of that other stuff. Do whatever it takes to teach him to become a MLB pitcher. One good season is all it takes to be set for life.
If you can’t keep your mind open, keep it ajar
Had a discussion at the end of the Mundelein Thunder Board meeting last night that is probably worth mentioning. Not so much for the topic itself but for what it brought to mind afterwards.
One of the things all of us coaches have to guard against is getting so caught up in what we teach that we close our minds to anything else. Paul Nyman at SetPro used to talk about this with hitting, and referred to it as adopting a religion. When people gain religious fervor for their beliefs, they tend to close out any contrasting ideas, even if the evidence shows otherwise. There’s a lot of bad information based on old beliefs out in the softball world, so it’s especially dangerous for us.
The topic had to do with bunting. The Thunder as an organization teaches running both hands up the bat and keeping them together to bunt. We went to this several years ago and have been teaching it for a while. The reason we made the switch was A) we were exposed to it at the National Sports Clinics by a college coach and when we tried it it was more successful than the traditional split-hands bunt. We defined success as getting the bunt down reliably in fair territory and in the direction we want it to go. Which is primarily toward the pitcher, and sometimes toward the first baseman.
Mike Hanscom, our 10U coach, doesn’t care for this technique and I think would like to see it change. He learned split hands as a player and believes it is a better technique. At the last National Sports Clinics he reported that all of the coaches demonstrated split hands, and when asked subsequently the ones he questioned said they don’t change it when the player comes in, but would teach it split hands if given a choice. Of course, many of those coaches might also say that they wouldn’t teach the rotational hitting mechanics being espoused by Mike Candrea, Sue Enquist, and Carol Hutchins either, but that’s a story for another day.
What I wonder how many have actually tried the hands together technique and discarded it, and how many are more of the “if it ain’t broke don’t fix it” mindset and have determined there is no need to change. They may believe there is no need to look at other techniques, or they may have determined ahead of time that it is not as good as hands together or hands partially separated.
Of course, that cuts both ways. I have to admit to a bit of religion on hands together myself. I see the technique used quite often both at the Womens College World Series and increasingly in baseball. As I mentioned, I’ve seen players use both and have more success with hands together. Like the college coaches, if I get someone new in at the 14U or 16U level who uses split hands I don’t change it — unless they’re having problems. Then I will ask them to try the technique. Most have preferred it once they tried it.
Ultimately, I am not sure that there is An Answer that will settle the question. But it does point out the importance for all of us, me included, to keep our minds open and constantly question what we teach rather than just doing things because that’s the way we’ve always done it. You may wind up right back where you started. But at least you’ll know how you got there.
Process v. results
One of the most difficult parts of improving skills for players, coaches, and especially parents is learning to focus on the process — how you do something — rather than the immediate result or “success.” Yet worrying too much about the results can really get in the way of learning.
Take hitting for example. On the one side, a hitter may use a lousy swing and hit a ball through the infield. I refer to this as a blind monkey finding a banana now and then. On the other side, she may have developed a great swing but strike outs out anyway. If you watched both you’d say the one with the hit was more successful today, and you’d be right. The question is which one will have greater long-term success? Sooner or later, as the competition gets better, the player with the poor swing will find herself getting on base less and less, and the player who has taken the time to develop the better swing will have see the profits of the time she put in. That is all part of the weeding out process in the game of softball.
It’s even more obvious with pitchers. A pitcher who is trying to learn good form may throw a lot of pitches high, low, or wide of the plate as she replaces one set of mechanics with another. Many a father-daughter argument has been started when Dad feels he’s made too many trips to the backstop that day. Been there, done that. Yet if your only goal is to get the ball over the plate, there are simpler ways to do it than the windmill pitching motion. But if you quit worrying about balls and strikes during the learning process and just focus on the mechanics of what you’re doing, it won’t take long before you’re throwing strikes anyway. Accuracy is a result of good, consistent mechanics, not a goal to be achieved. If you focus on the process of throwing correctly, the results will be there — guaranteed.
This thought doesn’t apply only to individual skills, either. It also applies to teams as a whole. I remember an interview with Martina Navratilova that I read a few years ago. She was talking about why Americans were having such trouble competing with European players. Speaking as an American she said something to the effect that Americans are very focused on winning, even at an early age, whereas Europeans are more willing to lose a match in order to work on parts of their game that need work. They don’t take the most expedient route to a win, but instead define success as accomplishing a particular goal, such as developing their ground stroke, even if it means losing in the process.
How many 10U or 12U coaches do you know who will place their focus on winning as many plastic trophies as possible rather than on developing all of the players on their teams? How many upper-level coaches will have a kid ride the bench all season, then be surprised when she can’t perform in the big game when the star gets hurt? Yes, winning is important. Nobody likes to lose. But great coaches can look beyond winning an individual game (today’s result) in order to focus on reaching loftier goals (the process). I’m not saying it’s easy, but it’s definitely rewarding.
Be willing to accept lesser results today in order to improve your game overall. Focus on the process instead of the results, and the results will come.
Shameless self-promotion
As I make my way through the blogging world, one of the challenges is getting people to this Life in the Fastpitch Lane site. In doing a little playing around I made a discovery today. If you do a Google search, it will look for the name of the blog on Web sites and in posts, but it won’t recognize it on its own.
So since the goal is to get more people here and engaged in conversations about softball, it looks like I need to say Life in the Fastpitch Lane a little more often. After all, most of the world begins its search on Google, so you have to be visible there.
I am sorry about the shameless self-promotion. But I believe including the phrase Life in the Fastpitch Lane, and putting up the occassional shameless self-promotional post, contributes to the greater good. So live with it! ![]()
ASA auction on eBay
Got an e-mail the other day from the ASA notifying me about an auction they’re running on eBay. The e-mail showed a list of items you can buy that “will make that perfect Christmas gift.”
Some of the items are the usual stuff you’d expect — autographed balls, posters, a trading card set, and some 8×10 glossy photos. But there were a few other items of interest that just beg for comment:
* Autographed used cleats from Stacey Nuveman, Jennie Finch, and Jessica Mendoza. Oh boy, just what every kid wants. Somebody else’s used shoes. Funny, my brother looked forward to the day he could get his own new shoes.
* An autographed #8 replica jersey signed by Cat Osterman. A replica jersey? A replica jersey? You mean with all the money they charge for membership those cheap screws at the ASA couldn’t spring for the extra few bucks for a real jersey for her to autograph? Here’s a hint guys — you don’t actually have to pay retail for your own merchandise.
* Autographed shorts Jessica Mendoza wore in the 2004 Olympics. Hope somebody washed them first.
* Autographed World Cup program. No specifications on which one or who signed it. It’s sort of a grab bag gift. You might get Cat, Natsha Watley, and Crystal. Or you might get a couple of hot dog vendors. Isn’t this fun?
* Stacey Nuveman chest protector from the 2004 Olympics. Ok, I kind of get the cleats and the glove. But a chest protector? Wouldn’t a nice painting look better on the living room wall?
Good to know the money is going to a good cause, though. It’s to help support the Olympic team in their quest for Gold in 2008. And here I thought they were going to waste it on something stupid like kids with cancer.
Must be rough!
Check out this post from Stacie over at All About Softball. She is based in Hawaii. Not only is the weather warm enough to practice in December, but it actually stays light there until 6:30 PM.
All this plus she gets to live in Hawaii with all its other features. As a lifelong Chicagoan it’s hard to imagine. As I write this it is current 7 degrees. Wow!
Getting started
Hello and welcome to Life in the Fastpitch Lane. This blog is dedicated to all sorts of thoughts and ideas about fastpitch softball.
I hope to stimulate a lot of discussion, help a few people, and learn a lot myself. Comments are open, but please keep them clean and nice. Thanks!
Ken





