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When Scheduling, Leave Time for Practice
The other night as I was wrapping up from lessons I got into a conversation with my friend Dave Doerhoefer. In addition to being a private instructor, Dave is a long-time fastpitch softball coach with the Vernon Hills Stingers travel organization as well as Vernon Hills High School.
The question Dave asked was my feelings about the obsession many travel teams today seem to have with squeezing as many games as they possibly can into the brief summer season. It is not uncommon for travel teams – even those that only play a couple of months in the summer due to spring high school softball – to set a goal of playing 100+ games.
I’ve blogged about this before (actually back in 2012), and it only seems to have gotten worse. So much for me being an influencer.
Both Dave and I agree that teams that focus on playing a crazy amount of games are doing their players a disservice on several levels.
No time for practice
Probably the biggest issue is that if you’re scheduling 2-3 nights of games per week, plus playing tournaments every weekend, you’ve left little time for practice.
That’s a problem because games aren’t where you get better. That’s where you measure where your skills are currently. Practice is where you get better.
In practice you can field 100 ground balls or catch 100 fly balls, which allows you to really hone your skills. Especially if the coach is smart enough to make those balls just slightly outside your current level of competence and continues to raise the difficulty level as your skills improve.
In a game, you’re lucky if you get 7-10 touches on a batted ball. Most players will get far fewer, or perhaps not any, especially if you have dominant pitchers with good strikeout numbers playing in five inning games due to time limits.
Younger players playing in timed games, who are the ones that generally need the most repetitions, may only see three innings of play. It’s tough to get better when nothing happens.
Add the need to teach all the various situations and permutations a player needs to know to make the good, instant decisions required to play at a high or even decent level and the problem of not getting enough practice time grows exponentially.
Reducing the number of games to allow for more touches/repetitions and instruction time in practice will do more to grow a player’s skills and softball IQ than just throwing them out on the field and leaving it to random chance.
Keeping the excitement
When you play games practically every day what should be a happy diversion from normal life quickly turns into a job. And how happy are people with their jobs?
Research shows that while 65% of workers surveyed are happy with their jobs, only 20% are actually passionate about them. Translating that into teams, if you have a team of 12 players it means only 8 will actually be happy with the team, and just 3 will be passionate about it, if playing softball starts to feel like a job.
You never want playing to feel routine. You always want your players to be excited and ready to give their all – at least if you want to win.
Cutting back on the volume of games will help keep those you do play more special. It will also give the parents a little more time to keep those uniforms looking spiffy.
Reducing burnout
Burnout is a huge problem in today’s youth sports. In fact, research shows 40% to 50% of youth athletes report experiencing some level of burnout.
That doesn’t mean they stop playing necessarily. But they may not have the same level of enthusiasm for playing they once did, and that can lead them to dropping out of the sport entirely eventually.
We have to remember that while we may have big dreams and aspirations for these young athletes, they are still kids. A few may want to play all the time rather than pursuing other activities, but most need other stimuli to help them full enjoy their lives and reach their human (not just their softball) potential.
More general free time, or even more time spent in practices rather than game situations, can help them grow their social skills more effectively as well, which will also help prevent burnout.
Making time for multi-sport athletes
There is much talk about how college coaches love multi-sport athletes, and how being a multi-sport athlete is better for the youth athlete’s health. The cross-training of playing multiple sports can help prevent injuries, especially those caused by repetitive movements. It can also help prevent the burnout discussed above.
Yet it’s awfully tough to fit another sport into your schedule when your softball team is playing nearly every day as well as all weekend.
Of course, this isn’t just a fastpitch softball problem. EVERY sport seems to think they need their athletes playing an incredibly heavy schedule of games in order to compete, and they plan their years accordingly.
At some point nearly all athletes need to choose a sport to specialize in if they want to play at a higher level, i.e., college. But that doesn’t have to be prior to about 15 years old.
Younger teams that reduce their game schedules give their athletes the opportunity to pursue other sports, at least at some level, to help them fully develop their bodies and potentially reduce the chance of injury. In return, they get athletes who are better conditioned and mentally sharper, helping improve their performance on the softball field.
More is not always better
Yes, it’s easy to get caught up in the idea that more is better when it comes to scheduling games. But the reality is it’s not.
It’s time to bring some sanity back into the process. As you plan your 2024 game schedule, don’t get caught up in the “arms race” of which team in your area plays the most games.
Think strategically and prioritize quality of schedule (including the factors listed here) over raw quantity of games. I think you’ll find your results improve – and your athletes will have a better overall experience.
Scheduling photo by cottonbro studio on Pexels.com
Oh Who Am I Kidding?
I was going to write a new post, but let’s face it. Nobody has the time to read it, especially with Christmas basically falling over the holiday.
So Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, whatever you celebrate I hope it’s a great time for you.
As my gift from me to you, here’s a song I wrote and recorded in my home studio. Enjoy!
Keep Dancing Until It Rains
There is a proverb (or an anecdote, or a story, I’m not sure which) about a Native American medicine man who was particularly renowned for his ability to overcome droughts by performing a rain dance.
One day he decides to retire and so takes on an apprentice to whom he can teach all his secrets. He shows the younger man a whole variety of treatments and such, but of course the younger man is particularly interested in learning the skill for which the medicine man is most famous.
Finally, the younger man just flat-out asks him, “Teacher, what is your secret for being so successful in performing the rain dance?” The medicine man gives him a sideways look, then says, “It’s simple: you have to keep dancing until it rains.”
This is the aspect many young softball players (and their parents) miss when it comes to improving their games. All too often they are looking for that quick fix – do a one-day clinic, take a handful of lessons, stay after practice for an hour one day, etc. and then they’ll be great.
It would be nice, and for an ultra-gifted athlete that may be all they need. But for the overwhelming majority improvement isn’t going to come that fast.
Instead it will happen in small, often unnoticeable increments that add up over time. If the player (and her parents) are willing to keep chipping away at it, they will see the results. Mostly because they kept working until the results showed up.
Take a story I heard the other day. The father of a couple of my students who is also a head coach was telling me about another girl I work with on his team.
When I first got her she struggled with hitting. A lot of strikeouts, and when she did hit the ball it was usually an easy ground ball or pop-up in the infield.
We worked at it and she got better, but it wasn’t exactly a straight line. If she was away from lessons for a few weeks due to being a multi-sport athlete who had other commitments we’d see a lot of backsliding and often have to start all over again.
When that happened I could see the sadness in her face. She was frustrated with the results, and probably frustrated with me that I was telling her she had to go backwards and re-learn how to hit.
Honestly, I thought I was going to lose her at least a couple of times. But she kept dancing.
Fast forward to the other night. The coach told me this girl was raking the ball in practice. I wasn’t surprised because she’d been doing that lately in our lessons too.
The key difference, though, was that although she had taken a few weeks off again, when she came back we were no longer going back over the basics. She had locked them in so all I was left to do was make little tweaks here and there to help her elevate her hitting to a level above where she’d been in the past.
If you looked at her swing now you’d probably think, “Wow, what a natural.” She is smooth and powerful (despite still having what I would call a slight build) and she is bringing the bat with authority. And she’s able to hit the ball hard in multiple zones, not just when it’s thrown down the middle.
None of that would be happening now if she had just given up when things got discouraging, i.e., when the swing mechanics reverted to her old ways. Instead, she kept working at it not just until she could do it right but until she couldn’t do it wrong. And boy is she having fun at the plate now.
Of course, not all roads lead to success. If you’re a parent, coach, or parent/coach you still have to do your due diligence to see if what your daughter is being taught lines up with what you see the majority of high-level players doing – whether that’s hitting, pitching, throwing, or some other skill.
If, however, you are sure of the mechanics or techniques, then keep working at them. Persistence pays off, and eventually it will rain.
Otherwise you may find yourself like the person who invented 6UP, wishing you would have hung in there just a little bit longer.
Rain photo by Aleksandar Pasaric on Pexels.com
The Real Point of Playing Fastpitch Softball
Having a competitive spirit is pretty much a requirement for playing fastpitch softball (or any sport for that matter). As long as someone is keeping score, human nature says you want your team’s score to be better than that of your opponent’s.
Yet if the score and who wins and who is the best becomes the entire point of playing, that mindset will obscure a much more important value that can be gained, in my opinion. Namely, the value of the overall experience.
This thought came to me when I saw an Internet meme with a quote from author Kurt Vonnegut. You can read the full quote here, but I will try to summarize it quickly.
Vonnegut tells a story about being on an archeological dig when he was 15. At one point the head archeologist asked him if he played sports, and he replied no, but told the man he did several other activities. When the archeologist said “Wow, that’s amazing,” Vonnegut told him he wasn’t good at any of them.
That’s when the archeologist dispensed this wisdom: Being good isn’t the point of doing things. It’s gaining the skills and experiences that make you an interesting person (no matter how you do them) that is the real benefit.
I mean wow, right? What a way to think about it.
In our “winning is the most important thing” and “if you’re not the best you’re nothing” culture imagine doing something just because you enjoy it.
Instead of playing for the trophy or chasing the college scholarship imagine that you play for the sheer joy of the experience.
I think that’s what is often missing in today’s game. Too many players are losing the joy in fastpitch softball because they’re so obsessed with reaching a goal someone else has told them they need to be striving for or securing an achievement that really isn’t a priority for them.
One of the biggest examples, of course, is playing in college. Players (and their parents) get so caught up in playing on the “right” teams or the “right” tournaments/showcases (those that will give them exposure to college coaches) that they forget why they picked up a glove and ball in the first place.
Players (and their parents) get so caught up in comparing themselves to others they know personally, or placing as high as they can in some arbitrary rankings, that they end up spending so much time trying to “be the best” that they lose out on other experiences life and the sport has to offer. And if after all of that they still don’t measure up to their wishes or expectations, what once started out as a way to go out and have a little fun in the sunshine as part of a group becomes a source of angst or even despair.
So, does that mean it’s ok for everyone but the most talented or most driven to give up trying to be better? Of course not.
I believe every player should strive to be the best they can be, overall and every time they step on the field. But the key part of that phrase is the “best THEY can be.”
Maybe you’re not going to be compared too favorably to the best players on your team or in your area. Maybe you’re never going to make a super high level team that travels all over the country.
But you can still work to better than you were yesterday.
If you’re a pitcher, maybe you’ll never come close to throwing 70 mph. But if you’re throwing 48 mph today, try to throw 49 mph tomorrow. If you walked 10 hitters today, try to walk only 9 tomorrow.
If you’re a hitter who struck out in every at bat today, work so that you put the ball in play once tomorrow. And so forth.
Others still may not think of you as being a great player, or maybe even a really good one. But you will have learned how to overcome obstacles and build skillsets where you previously didn’t have any.
And that’s going to far more important to your future success than your specific prowess in pitching, hitting, throwing, or fielding a yellow ball. It will also make you a more interesting person.
Try not to get caught up in all the hype and BS that seems to be so much a part of sports and life in general these days.
You don’t have to be great at something to enjoy it. Or to gain value from it.
Just grab your glove and get out on the field. A whole world full of experiences is waiting for you.
Life in the Fastpitch Lane 